Friday, August 14, 2009

7 Quick Takes




1. We eat a lot of pasta in our family--spaghetti, linguine, rice-stick, you name it. Especially long noodles are nearly impossible for my 2- and 4-year-old to manage, so I've recently discovered a great tool for swiftly turning wads of tangled strings into bit-sized chunks: a pizza wheel. I mound pasta and sauce on the plate, then with four or five slices at varied angles, it's ready to gobble.

2. Like fish? You should try this recipe for steelhead trout or any other salmon-like fish. It got us out of the sesame-soy or straight-up lemon treatments we'd been stuck on for so long.

3. Yogurt parfaits--another way to use up plentiful summer fruit. For this one we layered fresh blueberries with plain yogurt and mandarin oranges.

4. We're moving and I'm having a hard time coming to grips with the fact that a family of five will require more space than we're accustomed to having. We live in a very pricey part of the country and are trying to ferret out what we absolutely must have in a home and what isn't such a big priority.

Would any of you with three children please make some recommendations as to what we might value most when new baby arrives (i.e. a fenced yard, an extra bedroom, two bathrooms, etc.) and also any features we don't absolutely have to have?

5. Some weird animal behavior is going on around here. I feel like the victim of inter-species pregnancy empathy. OK, we have two cats--both females--who are spayed and perfectly normal by all feline accounts. But lately (since I've become undeniable with child) they can't get enough of me. I can't figure out if the two are related.

I adore our kitties, but I'm usually so weary of being touched and needed all day, I can barely muster the affection required to give them more than a fresh bowl of viddles and a pat on their fuzzy little heads. N's really the one who gives them the snuggle time they need and they usually bypass me and move onto him. But these days, they won't take no for an answer from me.

The big one stands inches from me on the vanity while I brush teeth and dry my hair, leaning into me with clear appreciation at the slightest notion that I might actually touch her. And the little one, who by nature is the more skittish of the two, sleeps curled up as close to my belly as she possibly can be every single night from lights-out to sun-up. What is going on?

6. We struggle to find family movies that are appropriate to share with our 4-year-old, so when we find good ones, I feel compelled to share. We rented a couple of "watch-instantly-on-your TV" short Imax films from Netflix last night and they were really impressive. We especially liked "Beavers: The best Dam Movie You Ever Saw" (love the title). It was somewhat educational, but mostly just entertaining to watch a husband and wife beaver overtake an entire chunk of river. I have new respect for these little vermin.

7. L is currently on her third week of mostly solid thumb-sucking cessation. We're very proud of her accomplishments and all of this hard work earned her a family pizza night late last week. She is proud and so are we.

10 comments:

  1. Thanks for the movie recommendation - we'll try to get it at the library. Mia is fascinated with woodland creatures :) And what a great idea for spaghetti cutting! I'm totally trying that next time. It's so frustrating to chase those little pastas around the plate.

    Sorry I have no advice for home requirements, we still only have 2 kids. My first thought, though, is that maybe a house with an extra room but no yard would be good as long as it's close enough to a park or something? I think the extra space would mean more to me than the yard.

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  2. **That's a great tip about the pasta. Sometimes I just break the noodle sticks (for lack of a better word) right before I put them in water. That way once they're cooked, they're just the right size for little forks. Of course, I often forget this step and then I have to deal with major complaints from the smallest members of the house. Next time though I'll be armed and ready!

    **It's rough that you have another move ahead of you. I wish I had some good advice...or that I was there to babysit while you and N go house hunting!

    **Strange about the cats, but I'm going to assume it just means lovely things about that baby you've got waiting in there.

    **I love to see that happy face on L! She's doing great!

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  3. ohhh, my heart goes to you about the move. Praying for peace, joy, and no worries about tomorrow. Truly..may He care for it alone.

    3 kids thoughts, specifically...2 kids + baby: you don't need 2 bathrooms. Not sure of your current bedroom situation, but someone can definitely share. B & L shared in Maine till L was 6 mos. I most appreciate a fenced yard for 'forcing independent unsupervised play'.

    In the end, you'll know what you need...cause you're the mama, and we just know. ;)

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  4. Hey Danielle I recently was introduced to your blog through Julie and love it! And a I also just hear a lot about through Ames. You do a wonderful job. We even made your "home made" finger paint this morning. Success, they lasted a whole 20 min!

    Feeling for you on the moving part. Praying for peace for you and N and the kiddos as you transition and wisdom as you have to make some fast decisions. Trust God that he knows best. He'll take care of you.

    We have 3 kids and I would say that 2 bathrooms are nice. It seems we are often getting ready for the day all at the same time. So it's nice to have some space to separate or divide and conquer the kids:)

    I'm a big fan of room sharing as well, think it's great. If you can't get a fenced in yard then maybe a house on a street with very minimal traffic. We often play t-ball or kick in our street. Also another thought. We value floor plans that have bigger living areas (family room, kitchen) and smaller bedrooms because that's where you spend your time as a family most.

    Take care:) And give my friend Amie a hug!

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  5. Hello my friend. Being a mother of 3 I have a couple of opinions, take it or leave it.
    We just put in a fence and it has been the best investment EVER. Now I don't have to worry about the kids playing in the street and escaping! It has been wonderful.
    My two boys are in one room and Syd in her own room right next door and more times than not she is asking to sleep in with the boys. So with your kiddos being as little as they are I would definitely go for sharing if it means bigger living spaces. We also all seem to find ourselves in the same bathroom getting ready so there isn't much point in having the other bathrooms ... not that I wouldn't mind a little space and privacy!
    Good luck with everything. I am sure whatever you find you will make a beautiful home out of it!

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  6. You specifically asked if anyone with 3 children had any suggestions. So I guess I can't comment :) Please just know I keep you in prayer constantly and I am sure the LORD will continue to bless you all. I'm so delighted that you are developing a readership or better yet that a wider circle of women are now enjoying your blogs.

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  7. Thank you each for your recommendations and encouragement. It means a lot to have you all weighing in on our current looming decision. I absolutely agree with the words about room-sharing. No matter how big our future home, I don't think we'll ever get C and L to give up their cohabitation. L already has her sights set on sharing her bed with C so that the new baby can have the crib.

    Aubrey--So glad you stopped by my little space. I love to have you reading and will definitely give Amie hugs for you. I'm glad you're sharing her with me. :)

    I also like what you said about open floor-plans. I think, like you, we can spacious bedrooms for open living areas, where we all tend to congregate anyway.

    Julie and Barbi--I'm in total agreement about fenced yards for independent unsupervised play, especially for the homebound months of newborn days. (It's clear from this comment that you both have boys, too. :))

    And Nana--of course, your views are welcome. I think your pov as a mother of five and a real estate agent (plus being the nana of my three tykes) definitely carry some clout in this realm. Offer up any time!

    Ahh...back to the hunt.

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  8. Well, we are four kids in 1400 sf...we have 3 bedrooms and 2 baths. I can't really imagine only 1 bathroom, but maybe if it was one really good one it would work ;)

    I have to say, i would find an enclosed yard VITAL to boot the big kids out for running around, for noisy time, for big messes, etc. Plus in that climate, it's so nice so much of the year, I think yard would be my priority. Smaller indoor space is do-able when you can extend your living outdoors, I find.

    Are you hoping to stay on the island? Good luck in your search :)

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  9. Thanks for your words, Jen. We've expanded our search beyond the island at this point because when you start searching for three bedrooms and a yard, the price goes up about $200 per month here. We're already pretty house poor. We'll keep you posted!

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  10. i've always have my eyes open for you when we are out. especially anywhere REALLY near us! should we be so blessed again?! we are here to help in any way we can and as we get closer we'll figue that out. N can have the keys to the truck :)

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